Most people think they need to slavishly follow personal finance advice. They’re wrong

Millions of people want a better idea of how to handle their money.

Personal finance experts have lots of tips and info on managing your money, from sticking to a budget to avoiding credit cards.

But is the advice out there always the right advice for you? Maybe not.

Maybe a budget isn’t strictly necessary. Maybe there’s a way to live well with credit cards or without them. 

These people all found ways to buck conventional wisdom and still succeed. 

Most people have an automatic revulsion to budgets.

The main problem is their rigidity. “Budgets say this is something that’s going to be completely inflexible,” said Tori Dunlap, 25, a financial coach in Seattle and founder of HerFirst$100k.

Beth Derrick, 36, who blogs about personal finance, also gives formal budgeting a thumbs down.

“Unless you have an accounting mind, budgets don’t really work for most people,” said Derrick, who lives in Flower Mound, Texas. “They’re guidance on what you can’t do.”

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Budgets can be complicated and overly technical. The system or budget should work for you, Dunlap says, not the other way around.

If spreadsheets are intimidating, don’t use them. Dunlap recommends putting money into three broad categories — necessities, goals and fun — rather than tracking every penny.

Many people love YNAB, the popular budgeting software. Derrick found it confusing. Instead, she finds it easier to live by certain principles: Live below your means, make sure your bills are paid, set a savings rate and stick to it, and enjoy what’s left over.

Jessica Garbarino, 42, who works in accounting and blogs about personal finance, has a surprising trait. She has no credit cards, because she can’t control spending when she has them.

“I have not had any debt since 2015, when I closed all my credit card accounts,” she said.

Garbarino, who lives in Charlotte, North Carolina, says credit cards are her financial heroin. “I would spend without thinking,” she said. Her best solution was to treat credit cards the way an alcoholic treats alcohol.

In 2018, she wanted to buy a home — even with her lack of credit history.

With none of the combinations that go into a credit score, Garbarino’s number was difficult to calculate.

Instead, Garbarino was able to demonstrate through certified letters from her utility company and landlord that she could prove years of on-time payments — and her mortgage was approved.

Can you over-save?

Yes, says Darren Brown, 32, a personal finance and small-business consultant in West Palm Beach, Florida.

“If you save too much money, it can throw your entire budget off,” Brown said. Then, people turn to credit cards or dip into savings because they didn’t allocate enough for their day-to-day spending.

Brown says he’s seen people determined to save 90% of their income. “It’s a crash budget,” he said.
When people think only about trying to save as much as humanly possible, they’re not planning or being strategic.

Don’t save till it hurts, Brown says. You’re better off setting a savings rate, like 10% to 15%, that you can live with.

Lauren Keys, 30, and her husband Steven have hit every U.S. national park (that’s 62) and all 50 states.

Ironically, the Gainesville, Florida, couple steer clear of travel-specific credit cards. “They’re more of a hassle,” said Keys, who blogs about personal finance and travel. “When we have 80,000 airline points laying around, we have to make sure we plan enough flights to use them before canceling the card.”

They sweep the money from cash bonuses into investments.

“We can buy airline tickets or hotel rooms with cash at the best price possible whenever we want,” Keys said.